LOVING THE ELDERS: STOP ELDERLY ABUSE

What is Elder Abuse?

Elder abuse of individuals in the community takes many forms, and in most cases victims are subjected to more than one type of mistreatment.

• Abuse - the infliction of physical, sexual, or emotional injury or harm including financial exploitation by any person, firm, or corporation.

• Neglect - the failure to provide services to an eligible adult by any person, firm or corporation with a legal or contractual duty to do so, when such failure presents either an imminent danger to the health, safety, or welfare of the client or a substantial probability that death or serious physical harm would result.

• Eligible Adult - a person sixty years of age or old who is unable to protect his or her own interests or adequately perform or obtain services which are necessary to meet his or her essential human needs or an adult with a disability, as defined in section 660.053, between the agesof eighteen or fifty-nine who is unable to protect his or her own interests or adequately perform or obtain services which are necessary to meet his or her essential human needs.

• Disability - a mental or physical impairment that substantially limits one or more major life activities, whether the impairment is congenital or acquired by accident, injury or disease, where such impairment is verified by medical findings.

• Financial Exploitation - A person commits the crime of financial exploitation of an elderly or disabled person if such person knowingly and by deception, intimidation, or force obtains control over the elderly or disabled person's property with the intent to permanently deprive the elderly or disabled person of the use, benefit or possession of his or her property thereby benefiting such person or detrimentally affecting the elderly or disabled person.

In Missouri, over 50% of elder abuse reports allege physical neglect (to include self neglect); 10% allege financial exploitation; 8% allege physical abuse; and over 9% allege emotional abuse. – MO Dept. of Human Services and Seniors

It is estimated that 2 million elderly Americans residing at home are victims of mistreatment or neglect every year. These men and women reside all across our communities and the abuse knows no social, racial, ethnic, economic, and religious lines.

The neglect:
• is most often attributable to the circumstances or environment of the victim, often circumstances beyond their control;
• often includes significant limitations in major life activities such as walking, bathing, cleaning, preparing meals, or shopping.

The abuser:
• is most often a family member, adult child, spouse, grandchild, and other relative; (25% of reports with someone named as a possible
  perpetrator)
• may be experiencing difficulties or problems due to the stress associated with caregiving; and
• may be frustrated or isolated.

Actions must be taken, wherever possible, however most seniors desire not to sever family ties.

The victim:
• is most often a female (64%)
• white (79%)
• living alone (43%)
• with spouse or relative (42%)
• may suffer from some form of dementia or physical impairment, often suffering from multiple limitations which make him/her dependent on
  others for care;
• tends to be isolated;
• may suffer from more than one type of abuse or neglect;
• may be reluctant to admit his/her loved one is an abuser; and
• may be fearful of reporting abuse, thinking it could lead to further harm, nursing home placement or total abandonment.

Warning Signs:
•Acute confusion
•Dehydration
•Malnutrition
•Hypothermia
•Fear/anxiety
•Bedsores/bruises/contusions/fractures
•Suicidal thoughts/attempts
•Psychosomatic/emotional complaints
•Frequent use of emergency services
•Withdrawal/depression

Characteristics of Abusive Households:
• Evidence of alcohol or other substance abuse
• Overly attentive or aggressive toward the elderly person
• Socially isolated
• Lack of family or social supports
• Presence of high stress
• Financial or marital problems
• Past psychiatric history
• Family history of abuse, neglect, or mistreatment
• Dependence of abuser on the victim

Reporting Suspected Abuse - MO Dept. Of Human Services and Seniors

Anyone can report alleged abuse or neglect in good faith however, certain professionals are required by law to report suspected abuse, neglect, or exploitation.

Missouri has several laws, which require certain professionals to make reports of suspected abuse or neglect.

The state laws pertaining to elderly abuse reporting apply in general to the following fields:
• social services
• adult care (in the home or in a facility)
• law enforcement
• ministry
• medicine and health care
• state service to seniors
• social workers
• funeral directors

Ways to Decrease Elder Mistreatment:
• Family support groups
• Meal services/support
• Housekeeping support
• Adult day care
• Routine Church member visits to home bound and those in nursing homes
• Active Church Senior Ministries

What Does God Say
Elderly parents are to be loving and respectfully cared for by children - Mark 7:11
Ministers are to treat the elderly with respect even when rebuking - 1 Tim. 5:1-2
Our elders deserve our respect and we are held accountable by the Lord - Leviticus 19:32